Positioning Your Kids for College Starting in High School

Positioning Your Kids for College Starting in High School

Introduction

Preparing your teen for college can feel overwhelming—grades, extracurriculars, test preparation, timelines. But getting ahead starts right in high school, with clear direction, strong habits, and smart planning. If you’re looking for a step-by-step roadmap (plus some extra love from fellow Gen X moms!), check out my new guide: Positioning Your Kid for College—Starting in High School on Etsy.

1. Build an Academic Plan That Matches Their Future

First things first: have a discussion about possible majors, careers, or college types—big university, community college, or trade school. Use aptitude metrics or interest surveys to align their strengths with paths that fit them. Then, sit together to map out the high school classes they’ll need—like AP or dual-enrollment courses—to stay on track. 

2. Develop Strong Study Habits & Organization Skills

Academic success isn't just about brilliant minds—it’s about effective habits. Teach your teen to:

  • Use a planner to track all assignments and deadlines.

  • Split bigger projects into manageable steps.

  • Find study environments that work for them—quiet, music, outdoors, wherever they’re most productive.
    These habits translate to less stress and stronger college readiness. 

3. Let the Guidance Counselor Be Their Co-Pilot

High school counselors are gold mines. Start early (sophomore or junior year) and work with them to build a timeline, select courses, research college options, and even discuss gap years or alternative paths. Their insight can make all the difference. 

4. Advance With AP, Dual Enrollment & College-Level Courses

Challenge matters. Encourage your teen to take AP or dual-enrollment classes if available—both can get them ahead academically and help build college habits early. It’s not just about credits; it’s about confidence and setting a high academic bar. 

5. Showcase Who They Are—Beyond Grades

College admissions look for well-rounded students. Help your teen dive into clubs, leadership roles, volunteer opportunities, or passion projects. And keep a running record of all that involvement—it’ll make applications richer and narratives authentic. 

6. Visit Campuses—but Let Them Lead the Planning

Campus tours are powerful—but even better when your teen takes the lead. Let them pick schools to visit, schedule appointments, and form impressions—not you. They’ll gain ownership, clarity, and feel more confident in their decisions. 

7. Talk Money Early—Scholarships, FAFSA & Budgeting

College isn’t cheap. The sooner you discuss financial expectations, the better. Help your teen explore scholarships, walk them through the FAFSA process, and keep track of deadlines. Early prep often unlocks better financial aid outcomes. 

Ready to take the next step?

If this resonates, my Etsy guide—Positioning Your Kid for College—Starting in High School—is designed to walk you through all these steps in a clear, mom-friendly format. It’s perfect for strutting into this school year with intention and peace of mind. Grab your copy now: Positioning Your Kid for College—Starting in High School.

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